I get asked this a lot - "How do I approach girls". You have had the hots for this particular girl for ages, but if you go up to her, you're not quite sure where to go from there. There are a few things you must learn to improve your technique for approaching women, but the single most important one is that of eye contact.
You've seen a girl you like and decide to approach her. The first thing you must do is talk to her. I'm not suggesting this needs to be anything profound. Just simple "Hi. How are you?" will suffice as an opener. Women like conversation. The next thing is eye contact. Now, I don't mean a quick glance for one second and then start staring at the floor whilst shuffling your shoes and looking all bashful. That my friend, is not eye contact.
Women love the eyes. They are the portals to your sole, and the first indication that a women gets of a male's desire for her. You would be surprised at how little people maintain 'proper' eye contact these days, so when you do it will have a marked impact on her, and also on how she now sees you. Eye contact is very important. There is nothing complicated about it, but do not stop once you've started (obviously don't stop blinking otherwise you've now entered a staring competition and that will COMPLETELY freak her out!)
Look into her eyes. Notice the colour. Pay attention to the size of her pupils. If they are dilated (large) then she likes you. This is a reflex action on her part, letting in more light and therefore more of you! By keeping eye contact you can see (no pun intended...) that not only are you impressing upon her your desire to be with her and talk to her, but you are also getting vital clues on how she feels about you.
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